SEND Parent Support · EHCP Advocacy

SEND Parent Therapy & EHCP Advocacy Support

Practical and therapeutic support for parents navigating SEND, school pressures and EHCP processes — in Greenwich, Bromley and online across the UK.

£60 per session Greenwich Bromley by arrangement Online UK-wide
Listed in Bromley Council’s SEND Local Offer →
Two routes Therapy · EHCP advocacy support
SEND fee £60 per session
In person Greenwich · Bromley by arrangement
Online Available across the UK

When parenting becomes advocacy as well

SEND parenting can mean carrying two loads at once.

There is the emotional work of parenting your child.

Then there can be another layer: meetings, reports, school communication, assessments, EHCP processes, Annual Reviews, waiting lists and the constant question of whether the right support is actually in place.

Many parents become highly capable advocates because they have had to. But being effective does not mean the pressure is easy to carry.

You may need support with the system, support with the emotional impact of the system, or both.

Which kind of support do you need?

Two different problems can sit inside the same SEND journey.

The support route depends on whether the main difficulty is the impact on you, the practical challenge of navigating the system, or the interaction between both.

Route 01

The pressure is affecting me.

You may feel permanently on alert, exhausted, unable to switch off, increasingly anxious, irritable or emotionally depleted.

SEND Parent Therapy focuses on the psychological impact of carrying sustained responsibility and uncertainty.

Route 02

I need help navigating the system.

You may be preparing for an EHCP meeting, Annual Review, school discussion or a difficult conversation about provision.

Advocacy support helps you organise your concerns, clarify what you want to raise and approach important discussions more effectively.

The lived reality of SEND parenting

The pressure is often cumulative rather than dramatic.

A single school email, appointment or review may be manageable.

The strain often comes from having to keep managing the next thing while everything else in family life continues.

Following up support that was discussed but has not happened.
Preparing for meetings while also managing work and family life.
Worrying that a need has not been fully understood.
Reading reports and trying to work out what matters most.
Managing disagreement between home, school or professionals.
Supporting siblings while one child requires significant attention.
Dealing with disrupted sleep, anxiety or school-related distress.
Feeling responsible for noticing every gap before it becomes a bigger problem.

The EHCP experience

The paperwork is only one part of it.

For many parents, the difficult part of an EHCP process is not simply understanding a document.

It is keeping track of concerns, evidence, conversations, promised support and what needs to be raised next — while also managing the emotional consequences of having to advocate repeatedly.

Parents often arrive at meetings already carrying weeks or months of frustration, uncertainty or fear that something important will be overlooked.

Before the meeting

Organising what matters.

Sorting through concerns, identifying priorities, deciding what needs clarification and preparing the points you do not want to leave unsaid.

During the meeting

Staying clear under pressure.

Holding onto your main concerns, asking the questions you intended to ask and responding when the conversation moves quickly or becomes emotionally charged.

After the meeting

Working out what happens next.

Reviewing what was agreed, identifying what still feels unclear and deciding what needs following up without becoming overwhelmed by the whole process.

Supportive education planning meeting representing EHCP advocacy and SEND parent support

The meeting itself can be only the visible part

Parents can spend days preparing for a conversation that lasts an hour.

You may be reviewing emails, checking reports, remembering previous conversations, anticipating objections and trying to decide which concerns matter most.

By the time the meeting begins, the parent may already be mentally exhausted.

Advocacy support is about helping you enter that conversation more organised, more focused and clearer about what you need to communicate.

SEND Parent Therapy

Support for the impact the pressure is having on you.

SEND Parent Therapy is not about suggesting that the demands are imaginary or that you simply need to think more positively.

Many of the pressures are real. Therapy focuses on how carrying them for a prolonged period is affecting your emotional and physical functioning.

Feeling permanently “on” or unable to relax.
Anxiety before school meetings or important conversations.
Difficulty switching off from SEND-related concerns.
Sleep disruption and mental overactivity.
Irritability, exhaustion or emotional depletion.
Guilt about feeling frustrated or overwhelmed.
Relationship strain or disagreement about what to do next.
Difficulty balancing work, siblings and your own needs.

Cognitive Behavioural Hypnotherapy may be used where appropriate as part of a structured therapeutic approach to anxiety, stress, worry and the patterns that maintain them.

EHCP & SEND Advocacy Support

Practical support for preparing, organising and communicating.

Advocacy support is different from therapy.

The focus is practical: helping you make sense of what you want to raise, preparing for meetings and approaching conversations with greater clarity.

Preparing for EHCP-related meetings and Annual Reviews.
Organising your main concerns before a meeting.
Clarifying the questions you want answered.
Structuring the issues you want to discuss with school or professionals.
Reviewing what you want to say when emotions are making it difficult to think clearly.
Preparing for difficult or high-stakes conversations.
Working out what still needs to be followed up after a meeting.

Where therapy and advocacy overlap

Sometimes you know what you need to say, but pressure changes how easy it is to say it.

A parent may understand their child extremely well and still find themselves freezing, becoming tearful, losing their train of thought or leaving a meeting frustrated that they did not say what they intended.

This is where the two support routes can overlap.

Some parents need help with the system. Some need support with the emotional impact of the system. Some need both.

Support exists around the child

But parents also need somewhere for their own experience.

Much of SEND family life is understandably organised around the child’s needs, appointments, routines, education and support.

It can leave very little space for the parent to process what the experience is doing to them.

Home learning scene with visual routine support for a child with SEND

What this service is — and is not

Clear boundaries matter when the system is already complicated.

SEND parent therapy and advocacy support do not replace specialist legal, medical, diagnostic or statutory advice.

Therapy supports the parent rather than assessing or diagnosing the child.
Advocacy support helps you prepare and communicate; it is not legal representation.
We do not determine whether a child meets statutory thresholds or entitlement.
We do not replace specialist SEND legal advice where that is required.
We can help you organise concerns and prepare for discussions.
We can work with the emotional impact that prolonged SEND pressure is having on you.

A separate SEND support fee

£60 per session.

The SEND parent service is priced separately from the wider Bohangar practice.

Parents supporting a child with SEND often direct substantial time, energy and financial resources towards assessments, education, therapies and practical support for their child.

£60

Per SEND Parent Therapy or EHCP / SEND Advocacy Support session.

The aim is to make ongoing parent support more accessible without placing it inside the main £125 Bohangar therapy structure.

Local SEND recognition

Listed in Bromley Council’s SEND Local Offer.

Bohangar is included in Bromley Council’s SEND Local Offer, helping parents and carers identify services and support available locally.

The service originally developed with a strong Bromley connection and continues to support parents in Bromley, alongside Greenwich sessions and online appointments across the UK.

View the Bromley Council Local Offer listing →

SEND Parent Support

Greenwich · Bromley · Online UK-wide

Support is available in person in Greenwich, in Bromley by arrangement, and online for parents across the UK.

In person

Greenwich

15A Nelson Road, Greenwich, London SE10 9JB.

By arrangement

Bromley

In-person Bromley support may be available by arrangement.

Remote

Online across the UK

Online sessions allow parents to access SEND support without needing to travel.

Parent and child walking towards school representing SEND school transition support

Support for the parent behind the process

The aim is not to remove every difficulty. It is to help you carry the journey more effectively.

SEND parenting can involve uncertainty that cannot simply be solved by one meeting, one report or one therapeutic technique.

The support is about helping you remain clearer, steadier and more able to respond when the next decision, meeting or period of pressure arrives.

SEND Parent Support FAQs

Can I use therapy and EHCP advocacy support together?

Yes. Some parents need practical support around meetings and communication, while also needing therapeutic support for the anxiety, exhaustion or emotional impact of the SEND journey.

Can you help me prepare for an EHCP Annual Review?

Advocacy support can help you organise your main concerns, clarify the points you want to raise, structure questions and prepare for the conversation. It does not replace specialist legal advice.

Is this legal advice?

No. EHCP advocacy support is practical support for preparation, organisation and communication. Where specialist SEND legal advice or representation is required, an appropriate legal or specialist service should be used.

Do I need to live in Bromley or Greenwich?

No. In-person support is available in Greenwich and Bromley by arrangement. Online sessions are available to parents across the UK.

Is the £60 fee only for SEND parent support?

Yes. The £60 fee applies to the SEND Parent Therapy and EHCP / SEND Advocacy Support service. It is separate from the wider Bohangar therapy fee structure.

What if I am not sure which kind of support I need?

You do not need to decide in advance. A brief initial conversation can help clarify whether the main need is therapeutic support, advocacy support, or a combination of the two.

You do not have to carry the whole SEND process alone.

Talk through what kind of support would help.

If you are unsure whether you need parent therapy, EHCP advocacy support, or both, book a brief discovery call and outline what is happening.

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